How long does each session last and what does it include?

Each session includes:

• A brief check-in/out 20 minutes at the beginning and at the end.
• Up to 30 additional minutes, if necessary, to establish the purpose and development of the experience.
• The central time of the session, completely dedicated to you.

Suggestion: Reserve additional time at the end of the session to integrate the experience in a calm and peaceful way.

Is an interview necessary before the first session?

Yes, the first session includes a 15-20 minute video call or phone call to resolve any doubts and manage the booking. Cost: 20 € (is deducted from the session price).

What languages do you speak?

I speak Portuguese, Spanish, English, French, Mirandese and understand Catalan fluently.

Is any special preparation required before the session?

To get the most out of your massage, I recommend you arrive with an open and relaxed mind. Also, it is helpful to avoid using strong perfumes or intensely scented deodorants. I use therapeutic grade essential oils that have natural healing and aromatic properties, so a low or neutral smelling deodorant is preferable to maintain the purity of the experience.

What can I expect in terms of excitement and contact during the session?  

You may experience sexual arousal and release during the session, but that is not the purpose of the massage. Throughout the experience, you will remain the receiver. I can guide you in breathing techniques to enhance the experience and help you to raise and direct your energy in a more conscious way. You will be in contact with my body during the massage, but there will be no sexual acts, such as oral sex. I will invite you to focus on yourself, on your own sensations, and to receive fully, rather than directing your attention outwards. 

Can I touch the therapist during the massage? 

No. During the massage, all our attention is directed to you, and any contact on your part could distract me and affect my energy. It is essential that you stay in your own awareness, as any action on your part would also take you away from that state. I invite you to focus inward, on your own body and sensations, rather than focusing outward, allowing yourself to receive fully. I do not expect you to touch, massage or kiss me. 

That said, there are specific moments, such as when "connecting with mother nature", when hands can be placed on the therapist's body to tune into the feminine energy during the massage. Likewise, during the lingam massage, hands are placed on the therapist's legs to connect energies and create an energy circuit. 

What if I like you so much that I fall in love with you?   

There is nothing wrong with that. What you will discover is that you are not falling in love with the therapist, but with an aspect of yourself. This experience will guide you towards the self-love that Existence requires of you and, in a deeper sense, help you to recognise the divinity in the other as your reflection.

Do the sessions include any sexual intercourse? 

None of the sessions include sexual intercourse. Although we work with sexual energy, intimacy and openness, we do not offer any sexual services. The sessions are naturopathic and there may be body to body contact, but no sexual activity will take place. 

What if I am afraid?   

It is completely normal to feel fear, especially in a society where sexuality and intimacy are often surrounded by taboos. Many people have not received a solid education on how to be a good lover or how to build a healthy intimate relationship. This can make it difficult to express what we really want and to maintain a satisfying relationship. 

Fear of exploring something so intimate and precious is natural, especially when we have had little evidence that relationships and sex can be as rewarding as we wish. Tantra can be a great help in this process, as it teaches you to communicate your concerns, moves at a pace that allows you to feel safe, and helps you become aware of your feelings and desires.  

What if I have problems with my sexuality, can you help with a specific session? 

All my sessions have sexual healing as their purpose, where the focus is on releasing the negative energy accumulated in our body due to trauma or harmful sexual experiences. This process seeks to unblock and transform that energy to use it in a more positive way. It can be as simple as recognising that we no longer need to protect ourselves from what happened in the past. It can also include techniques such as conscious breathing, emotional release, specific massages and awareness of the areas of the body that have stored these experiences. 

I want you to know that all of us, at some point, have had sexual taboos or traumas. It is a consequence of the way our society is constructed. You are not alone in this journey, and taking this step towards healing is an act of courage and self-love. Together, we can work to release these burdens and help you connect with a freer, more authentic version of yourself. 

Is there room for ejaculation/orgasm in sessions involving genital contact?

Yes, it is your decision. If at some point you decide to ejaculate, I will not stop you, but I will encourage you to hold back as long as possible. I will help you to do this. If you prefer not to ejaculate, you can learn breathing and muscle control techniques that will allow you to direct the energy beyond the genitals and make the urge to ejaculate disappear. These techniques, along with some exercises at home, can be helpful if you have problems with premature ejaculation. Check out the ongoing sessions in packs for more in-depth work! 

I suffer from premature ejaculation, can your sessions help me?  

Yes, Tantra/Sexual Tao offers therapeutic exercises that can be very effective. Learning about Tantra can be an excellent way to manage premature ejaculation. It will teach you how to prolong erection and control ejaculation, thus improving your performance and experience in bed. 

I am not able to reach orgasm, can your sessions help me? 

Yes, for both men and women. Tantra, edging and Taoism can teach you to experience longer and more intense orgasms. There are powerful techniques for achieving multiple bodily orgasms, and by learning to control ejaculation, you can achieve higher and deeper orgasms. You can experience as many orgasms as you wish during the session. 

My body is old and I am fat. Will this be a problem for you?

Not at all. My focus is on helping you feel and rediscover your essence, beyond how you look. Your body is the vehicle of your story, and in it resides all your beauty and authenticity. Here you are not judged, you are honoured. Tantra and Massage can help you overcome any negativity you feel towards yourself and appreciate your body for the pleasure it can generate. 

 Do I have to receive genital or anal massage?

No, that is entirely up to you. Genital contact is not essential; the focus is on expanding pleasure from the pelvic area. Before the session, we will discuss your intentions and desires to make sure everything is in line with what you are looking for. If your healing process requires these practices, I will suggest them and we will discuss them, but the final decision is yours. 

 Can I choose a male or female therapist?

Yes, you can. Indicate your preference when booking your session and I will make sure to assign a professional who will make you feel completely safe and satisfied with the experience. 

 Do I need to have a partner for the sessions?  

No, it is not necessary. The path of self-discovery can be done individually before sharing it with someone else. If you wish to explore dynamics that require a partner, it may help to find an assistant or, if you prefer, you can invite a friend or partner to accompany you in the process. 

 I am a woman, can I have a session with a female therapist without being a lesbian?  

Of course it is. The experience is based on love, intimacy and energy, not sexual orientation. You will be encouraged to accept and love yourself, regardless of your sexual orientation. However, if you prefer a male therapist, just let me know. 

 We are a couple, should we attend sessions together or individually?   

That depends on what you prefer. If there are individual aspects you want to work on, it is advisable to start with individual sessions and then attend together. We will have a pre-call of up to 20 minutes to answer any questions before each session. 

 How to book an appointment?   

You can book an appointment by filling in the booking form. To avoid surprises, I recommend you book in advance. Also, as it is a very intuitive job that requires communication, we will have a 20-minute consultation to clarify any doubts before confirming the booking. The more you tell me about your needs and expectations, the better I can plan the ideal experience for you. Ask yourself why you are coming, what you hope to learn and experience. My intention is to offer you an educational and pleasurable experience, whether you are interested in Tantra, BDSM or exploring other forms of spiritual, physical or emotional growth. Let me know your limits and desires; whatever you want to share is welcome. 

  Any other questions?

If you have any other concerns or something that is not covered here, please do not hesitate to ask me. I'm here to help you and will answer any questions you have.